Archives for September 2013
Well, after that dramatic announcement, I wasn’t even gone for two weeks. Bit embarrassed now but hey, I thought it would be longer and felt you deserved some sort of warning.
The reason I disappeared hasn’t gone away, It’s just starting to get a bit better now. I don’t mean to be mysterious but I can’t really (and don’t want to) explain why, not here, not yet… I may do at some point in the future but for those of you that asked I’m ok, thanks for your lovely messages! I will reply to you soon if you have sent me a proper email 🙂
So, erm… yeah, I’m back. Good to see you again.
That’s all (for now)!
Mushrooms Mum x
I am just posting to apologise in advance for an extended period of absence.
That sounds very formal doesn’t it? Hmmm, well, that’s how it came out.
For various reasons, which I’d prefer not to share at the moment (this may change when I return), I will be going offline for a little while. It may be a few weeks and it may be slightly longer.
All I know is that I will be back.
But in the meantime, there will be no blog posts and I won’t be around on twitter either. I will keep an eye on my emails though, so if there is anything you need to contact me about, do email me and I’ll do my best to respond as soon as I can.
Thank you for your patience and understanding.
Rachael (and Mushroom, who is absolutely fine, in case anyone is wondering)
Before the summer started I cleared out Mushroom’s drawers to make way for his summer clothes (it looks like I will shortly be sorting him out again for winter now! The summer never seems to last long enough) and found a couple of 0-6 months sleeping bags. I was planning to put them in storage but for some reason I left them out (I can’t remember why, I expect I was interrupted for something terribly important, in Mushroom’s eyes).
Later that week Mushroom was sick and I had to change his sheets. We didn’t have a clean pillow case so I grabbed one of these sleeping bags and tried it. Perfect fit. It just happened to be an In The Night Garden sleeping bag and Mushroom went back to sleep smiling and talking about Iggle Piggle despite feeling unwell.
Feeling pleased with myself about coming up with a way of re-using this sleeping bag that made Mushroom so happy, I decided to try and think of other uses for it, rather than storing it away.
The next best use I came up with was as a sunshade. Mushroom’s buggy doesn’t really protect him from the sun (and he often throws his hat off in frustration – ‘head hot Mummy!’) so it worked perfectly to keep him in the shade on really hot days… See?
I came up with a couple more ideas so thought I would share them here in case you, too, have a couple of old ones lying around.
- Hygiene mat (for changing tables when you don’t have/have forgotten your own mat)
- Buggy protector for newly potty trained toddlers (we still sometimes use a slightly heavier (2.5 tog) baby sleeping bag for Mushroom on long journeys
If you think of any more, do comment below to let me know so I can steal your ideas too. Thanks. 😉
This is the first in what will become a series about how Mushroom and I make the most of our green (and not so green!) spaces in the city to interact with nature. I thought I’d start with something seasonal so first up is a post about blackberry picking!
Not far from where we live, there’s a recently renovated park, imaginatively named ‘jubilee gardens’ (no, it’s not the one at the South Bank and yes, I am being a little sarcastic). It’s a lovely park that has been created with an emphasis on making the most of the natural space it occupies. Sort of. But that’s for another post. The reason I mention it here is because you can either walk to it via the main road, passing the usual bus stops and shops on the way, or you can take the back streets…
One of these back streets leads to a wide open field that houses a disused Scout hut. It’s not a route I’d take during the winter months when it’s dark and not many people are using it for safety reasons but during the summer Mushroom and I almost always go this way.
After a short walk past the hut, there is a bit of a path that leads over a river with just a little “dirty water,” (according to Mushroom) and loads of wild flowers. On the corner, just before the river, there is a massive blackberry bush.
Mushroom and I have been passing this blackberry bush for a while and I explained to him that you can eat the little red berries but that they “are not ready yet.” I told him they would be black when they are ready. This week, I packed a tupperware container without telling him and said we were going for a walk. When we reached the bush he pointed to the bush and said “Mummy? Not ready yet.” I said “Yes, they are ready and we can eat them!” I was rewarded with a massive grin, followed by a look that clearly said “are you sure?” I picked and ate one to show him it was safe and gave him one to try. A slow smile spread across his face as the juicy fruit burst between his teeth and he showed me his berry stained gums. I the got out the container and said we would pick some to take home and he was very excited. It wasn’t long before he was covered in sticky blackberry juice!
After about 15 minutes he got fed up so we headed over the river to the park. He kept stopping along the way to pick blackberries from the smaller bushes we saw on our walk and once we reached the park I overheard him saying to another child “berries ready,” as though he was delivering world news. He kept asking for more on the way home so I never got to make the crumble I’d planned as there wasn’t enough left! However, I’m sure we’ll go blackberry picking again before the end of this month so there’s still time.
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